1. Life with Mr. Plan Man

    As you may have gathered in my last blog and previous blogs, I am continuously being pushed, I mean, strongly challenged, by my husband.  He is the master of setting extremely high goals and doing whatever it takes to finish them. We’ve been working on our place for over two years now, so he’s really dead set of finishing this project. 

    The problem is that my personality has always been a little more chilled out.  My attitude has always been “whatever gets done is good enough for me.”  This attitude, my friend, can really put my man in a tailspin.  So after seven and a half years of trial and error, he is constantly trying to figure out what best motivates me.  Sometimes it’s a little too much to take.  Let’s see, we had “Work November” right before Christmas, not to mention all of the “What are your goals for today?” conversations.  And here’s the clincher:  last week he asked me to clear my social schedule from then until the middle of March to chip away at “Project List of Twenty-ten.”  Seriously? 

    Okay, I admit, the worst part is that some of his tactics really do motivate me.  I said some.  And for whatever reason, this honkin’ list really has gotten my propellor spinning. 

    Project list of 2010

    It took us the entire day to go around the house making the stupid thing. But, man.  I’ve been knocking the projects out like bowling pins.  I gave every piece of furniture that was ugly or dirty a fresh coat (or several coats) of white paint.
    Like this little guy.  This was given to us by my mother-in-law the year we got married.  And by the way, MIL, this was in the dirty category…not ugly.  I promise.

    chest of drawers

    And this big ol’ sucker.  Actually, there are two of these.  They came from a school auction and I think we paid $7 a piece for them.  I know it doesn’t look like it, but a lot of work went into these puppies.  Four coats of paint each, not including primer.  They were black to begin with.  Oh, and very ugly. 

    bigshelf

    Another chest of drawers got in the way of the white paint brush as well, but it’s not pictured.  It’s still too embarrassed about it’s ugly hardware that still needs to be replaced.  But, these lamps were rescued by a can of pistachio spray paint from Big K. 

    lamps

    They felt a little naked until I found these sweet dandies.

    IMGP0971 

    Then, there was some sewing to do.  Two cushions for my fireplace.  The fabric came from IKEA—made the flight with me from Houston and everything.

    fireplace

    Score!  I ran across these “DIY Tapestries” at Walls Bargain Center (along with the lamp shades above).  What a find!  Right here in western Oklahoma.  I think they came from Urban Outfitters.  My heart was really racing when I spotted these bad boys.  Definite fabric freak-out in the aisle. As you can see, I only have concrete plans for one of these pieces.

    fabric score

    Shower curtains for my bathroom.  Still not sure that I love these.  They will do for now, but I feel a replacement coming on soon.

    shower curtain…hmm not sure

    Recover my ironing board?  Why not?  This fabric came from Hobby Lobby.

    ironing board cover

    Window treatment for my craft room.  I wanted to keep the natural light peeking in, so I didn’t line them or anything. 

    craft room window

    Curtains are hung in my room.  I love them!  It’s very hard to find window panels that long.  Thanks, IKEA.  You’ve done it again. 

    room

    A headboard for our bedroom.  It’s not quite finished yet, but you get the idea. 

    headboard almost finished!

    And last, but not least. This guy got a definite makeover.  In fact, it might’ve actually been more like a gender reassignment surgery than a makeover.

    chandy before

    Booyah! 

    chandy after

    And I’m spent.

    Don’t get me wrong.  Do I know think setting goals and finishing them is beneficial?  Yes.  Do I make a habit of writing a daily/weekly/monthly/yearly list of goals in order to check them off with gratification?  No.  Do lists motivate me?  Yes.  Do I want to string my sweet husband up by his ***** when he presents/bullies me with his motivational tactics?  Definitely.  Am I grateful to have a husband that sets high goals and achieves them consistently?  Yes.  Do I love him dearly despite of it all?  Of course.  Have I managed to get this stuff done and still managed to hang out with friends and family?  You bet your bippy.

    ***** = teeth.  Geesh, people.

Comments

1

Love all your projects! Love the chandelier’s gender reassignment. smile
I’m begging Dusty to take me to IKEA for my Valentine’s/Anniversary gift. Ha!

By SarahJ on Feb 6, 2010 - 5:35pm

2

Wow.  Great update.  I’m exhausted just thinking about it.  Very impressed.  Love it!

By Jodi on Feb 6, 2010 - 6:14pm

3

That chandelier is fan-freakin-tastic!

By Jake on Feb 7, 2010 - 4:34pm

4

Many thanks for posting pictures, it looks great!
Still planning on an overnight but waiting until the weatherman isn’t predicting another STORM WATCH.
love you, Aunt Cindy

By Aunt Cindy on Feb 7, 2010 - 4:38pm

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Hey, the cushions turned out great!

By Roxie on Feb 8, 2010 - 10:20am

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Mer, I just adore all of your improvements!  Maybe all the great comments will help to motivate you further (but only if you need it).  Thank you for sharing some of your before/after shots and the great fabric finds.  Now I’ll have to check out our Walls and see if they happened to have any of those fabric finds here, too.  Our store is so disorganized they could have had some for a year and I may or may not have seen it yet!  Yeesh!

btw…***** can also spell some other interesting 5-letter words!  Eek!

By Amy on Feb 8, 2010 - 11:23am

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I am sweaty just reading your stuff.  (And, the chandy looks dandy!)

By mama on Feb 8, 2010 - 8:59pm

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You have and exceptional talent for not only doing stuff, but telling an interesting story about what you 2 have done!  Keep up the fun stuff!

By Ron smith on Feb 10, 2010 - 10:26am

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I am in love with your chandelier.  Did you have to do anything to it before you painted it?  I might have to copy your idea, as I would love a bold and fun chandelier in my bedroom.

By Lindsey@pickyeatings on Feb 11, 2010 - 2:38pm

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Wow, like WOW!  You’ve done more here than I’ve accomplished in the last ten years.  But I’ll blame that on my three children.  Great work.  Everything looks fantastic, but I am especially enamored with the chandalier transformation.  Really amazing.  I would never have anticipated such a stellar outcome.  You have vision!

By the way, visiting from D*S.  So glad I found your blog!

By nkp on Feb 12, 2010 - 9:39am

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@Lindsey-  I used a spray primer on it first.  It only took one can for this bad boy.  Then, I used three cans of red spray paint.  That’s all!  Glad you’re inspired!

By Meridith on Feb 13, 2010 - 10:05pm

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I love the recovered ironing board.  Who is inspired to iron on a standard (i.e. unattractive) cover?  Yours, however, makes me want to iron (and I don’t even like ironing)!  My ultimate fave, however, is the RED chandelier.  Like someone commented above, STELLAR job!
http://www.stellarspaces.wordpress.com

By Tonya Paulette on Feb 14, 2010 - 11:27am

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Looking Up To the time and effort you put into your blog and detailed selective information you offer! I leave behind bookmarker your blog and experience my youngsters discover working here often. Thumbs working!
Wall Graphics

By Garth on Jun 8, 2010 - 1:41am

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This is interesting article.I’m doing like you.My dad always scold me because i dont complete anything within time.He suggest me to save the time….square peg web

By rena on Jun 15, 2010 - 2:51am

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